Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Fixing my car

What initially thought of car fixing has become full blown car modification. The things that I've done are:

a)engine top overhaul
b)clutch plate from 1300 to 1600
c)lighten flywheel
d)power steering
e)carb modification
f)spark plug and plug cable
g)timing belt
etc

All this come to RM3150. I guess this year is pretty bad year for me financially. I don't earn more in career wise. But spending has been like crazy lately. I'm not sure why I was in this situation. Coupled with RM400 burned in mum's US Visa application, 2007 is the worst year in my life in terms of spending rationally.

Top money usage:
a)facial - rm10,000
b)car - rm3000
c)Lasek - rm5000
d)oven - rm2000

Wow, RM20,000 and I still paying it with 0% instalment. Thanks credit card. I'll always be in debt. To those who read my blog, spend wisely. And get rid of credit card.

Mum's Visa Application

This is a sad day. Mum's Visa application to US is rejected. I still don't know why. But I'll find out after she come back today. There goes the RM400 application fees.

Tuesday, October 16, 2007

Credibility in workplace

One thing that make you more happy in work place if people respect you and have lots of friend. Sometimes, I feel like making everyone happy with jokes and stuff. But I find out that if this is done too much, it'll backfire. People will stick with the mindset that you're not serious etc. And other will think that you're too easy going and may say something that sometimes hurt (because they no longer think you're more senior than them). So all this kind of relationship must be thread carefully. To be successful, its better to be more serious.

Here are ten ways you can build your credibility:

1. Be yourself. To be credible, you don’t have to appear perfect. You should concentrate on and play to your strengths. You want to show what you have to offer, how or why you can be valuable to the organization. It’s true that you want to put your best foot forward and present things in a positive light, but you need to be honest, human and not present a plastic image.

2. Act the part. You have to look the part and act the part of a person who has the organization’s interests uppermost in his or her mind and is competent in the way you handle yourself and represent the organization. When you do this it automatically builds your credibility.

3. Listen carefully and follow instructions. One of the surest ways to lose credibility is to botch a job due to carelessness. When you are given an assignment, make sure you understand exactly what is expected of you and when it is due. Paraphrase what you are being told, to verify accuracy, and write down the information you are being given, to avoid confusion.

4. Be knowledgeable. At the heart of credibility is being a professional and knowing what you’re doing. You must be able to do the job. You can’t fake it. When you don’t know something, you have to figure out a tactful way of saying, “I don’t know that particular computer program. Someone will have to show me the software.”

5. Network. There is an old saying along the lines that it doesn’t matter if you don’t have all the answers, as long as you know the person who does. Having an extensive network of contacts, both in your field and in unrelated fields, is important no matter what profession you’re in.

6. Be a problem solver. You will gain credibility by having the reputation of someone who doesn’t throw up his or her hands at the sight of difficulty. If you cultivate the attitude that you can conquer any problem, you will cultivate the image of a doer, of a credible and reliable individual.

7. Keep an open mind. Narrow-mindedness will quickly cause you to lose the respect of other people. You need to keep an open mind toward all people. You must also keep an open mind to new opportunities, skills and ways of doing things. That will make you a more flexible and adaptable employee and, in turn, more respected and valued. The more things you are able to do well and the more people you are on friendly terms with, the more esteemed you will be among your colleagues and superiors.

8. Cultivate self-awareness and set goals. Having goals gives your every action a sense of purpose. It conveys to people a feeling that you are someone who is going somewhere, someone not to be ignored, some one with credibility. However, to set clear and specific goals, you must first have self-awareness. You must first determine what is important to you.

9. Speak like a professional. Nothing will cause you to lose credibility faster than speech patterns that are unprofessional, or even worse, unintelligible. Ask your coworkers and colleagues if you use slang? Do you enunciate clearly? Do you speak organized thoughts and full sentences or do your thoughts jump around and your sentences trail off?

10. Look life a professional. Personal grooming plays an important role in shaping your office image. If your appearance is not professional, others will believe that you are sloppy and inept in your work as well. You will be perceived as being credible if you dress in a manner that is standard in your profession and that commands respect.

Every action or inaction contributes to your professional image, whether it’s returning telephone calls promptly or implementing a program that will save your company thousands of dollars. Because of this, no detail is too small. The little things are important because they build your credibility. If you don’t pay attention to the little things, your credibility is lost.

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